Success

Success is when you are able to bounce back when you fall.

No matter how many times it would be.

Keep on bouncing.

And,

The very first thing you have to do to start your journey, 

getting up the sky to reach the stars..

The very first thing, that will give you the strength is..

SMILE.

AND SMILE.

A N D  S M I L E...!

YES! KEEP ON SMILING!

You have to start your journey..

  

... HAPPILY! 

    

Answering questions

Assalamualaikum, peace be upon you :)




Last week, I was asked a question which I found was tough.

I took two meetings to answer that question. The first meeting went just well, but because of the presence of other people as well, more questions came. After an explanation, there's tens of question marks struck me.

Thanks to the one who asked. I can't get the question out of my mind for few days :)

So we decided to continue.

From the first to the second meeting, I asked so many people to be consulted in order for me to present better arguments. I read books, searching on the internet, emailed so many people, asked opinions here and there.


And then came the second meeting. Instead of better, I made things even more complicated. Cause I tried to convince, and I was going here and there, picturing analogy, yet still baffling. The logic was just not there. To prove that he's wrong and mine's correct.

And now, the discussion has ended.

..........................................

What matters now is not the arguments. I, now, learned the etiquette of entertaining the one who asked, and the question. Cause I was wrong.

1. Accept disagreement. When dealing with opinions, it will cover an extensive area of discussion. Why? Because it's an opinion. Every single person will come up with a different idea. That idea is somehow molded based on one's experience, situation and understanding.

2. Put yourself in the questioner. Pretend as if you were the one who is finding the answer. You too are not sure whether you are in the right side or not. Let both of you be in a situation where both wanted to find the truth. Open your mind.

3. Clarify terminology and the context. I found a theory while I was making research for the question. A term is set to correspond to several actions, and situations, which give the meaning to the term. And that meaning is what causing people to judge on the term, and where the law comes. If you vanish out the meaning, but still use the term - then don't expect people to not misunderstand you. And plus, the law should then be different. Thus, laws shall be executed by the meaning, not the term. So if you were asked about something, and you take it as what generally it means. In contrast, the one who asked may have a bit different meaning than the general one. Therefore, before jumping immediately into what you think, you better ask the person first. He/she may have a different meaning to the same term. Ask the situation where the term he/she used, comes in. Then only the discussion can be proceeded to the same direction.

4. Asking is to know. People ask, because they want to know about something. It doesn't necessarily mean that that person is ready for a mutual agreement, or ready for a change. Sometimes, yes. But most of the time, the realization of knowing something comes later, not at that point of time. So you shouldn't expect for a result, or immediate respond. 

5. Knowing versus understanding.  It is so hard to make people understand things the way you did. Because understanding needs a deep thinking, and the effectuation comes a bit more later. Understanding also deals with hearts. Let it take it's own way in achieving the understanding. Your job is to respond to the question.

6. Have a discretion. This is very sensitive. That person may no longer wanted to ask you anything anymore in the future, once you let it on. That's too bad.

Anything more to add.. ?



May I have a better experience next time. 
And lets digest the lessons this time! 
And repeat the mistakes no more time :)



Adiosss!

Happy New Year

Peace be upon you all, wishing you a Happy New Blessed Year!

Honestly speaking, I don't really feel like a new year.
It's typical that people celebrate it, but in fact it is just a change of a number. Can a number make a difference?

But yeah, you see. Who in the year 2000 will ever expect that we'll be living up to now, 2013? When I was standard 6, or generally speaking, I was in primary school, we've seen so many bad things happen and we used to relate it to the Last Hour. I always thought that the Hour was too near that I may not even able to live any longer, having a husband and children. The future seems so unpromising.

But yet, now I'm in 2013. If during the time of the Prophet sallahualaihi wasallam, the analogy for the world was as an old women, what would be her condition for now, after almost 1400 years past?

Last year ended with a death of Damini (not real name), a victim of a gang-raped case in New Delhi, on 29th December 2012.

By time, when people, bit by bit, leaving the nature of them, to have a God and purpose in life, we see human are getting inhumane. It can hardly be differentiated from human to animals. In some instances, we see that the animals can be more human than human itself.

That was what 2012 men did.

This new year, I bet, more inhumanity will be written on history.

What will 2013 men do this year?

Believe me, a number wouldn't change a man. The same, even worse thing will happen.
A new year, is a victory year for some, and intimidating for others, terrorizing for minors.
Some people are meant to die this year. Meant to be abused, meant to be corrupted, meant to be destroyed.

For having inhuman people, our future is terrorized.

Love Principle.

 Bajet gile kan ade Prinsip Cinta. Kahkah.

Flowering and blossoming like love? Kredit kepada Madmie AvantGarde

Kenapa nak tulis pasal ni? Out of the blue kan. Sebab aku tetiba terfikir tentang seseorang..

Jengjengjeng.

Cinta ni kena ikut konteks. So aku tulis ni ikut konteks orang yang percaya adanya Tuhan, dan percaya yang Dia ada hantar utusan yang sepatutnya menjadi contoh kita dalam kehidupan seharian.

Aku tak quote any holy scriptures, yang aku nak bebel cumalah benda logik dan fitrah, yang aku rasa patutnya semua orang boleh fikir. Kenapa aku nak guna logik je? Sebab cinta tu memang original nya ada kat diri semua orang. Tak perlu ada reference book pun orang dah pandai bercinta. Yang tengok jugak reference tu, adalah orang-orang yang mimpi nak bercinta macam drama korea or Cinderella - which is toooooo far away to resemble the reality.

Ayat aku macam kasar sikit sebab ni bab cintan cintun kan. So kalau ayat berbunga lagi la orang melayang. Dan aku, takde masa untuk benda-benda mengurangkan iman ni. Ececeh.


Bismillah dan assalamualaikum.

Tetiba hilang idea.

krohhh.

Young man, control in your hand.

Slam your fist on the table and make your demand.

Take a stand, make a fire for the flame of the youth,

Got a freedom to choose, you better make the right move.

(Matisyahu - Youth)

Ayat di atas utk naikkan semangat je: Slam your fist on the table!

It's still okay to give in in certain situations, but when it deals with love, I think it's a start of a very long journey when marriage happens. It's about my future, the kids I'm gonna raise and all family members on both sides. I need to be firm.

Tell me what do you feel when you're in love? Have you ever experienced one? I'm proud to admit, yes, but hypocrisy tells, I haven't REALLY.

When you're in love, it is so hard to tell anything wrong. Everything will be perceived as right, and both person will promise to sacrifice and do anything for the partner. Is that a typical story? It's shown in the movie, and it's happening for real. Cuma ending selalunya tak berlaku dalam realiti.

Dalam keadaan itu, we're uncontrollable. Nampak macam ok, tapi hati yang terpaut (macam terpaut kat pokok) susah nak dilepaskan. Tapi bila dah jatuh, baru kita perasan tinggi rendah pokok, baru perasan kenapa lah aku dok tergantung takde arah tujuan tu?

Uncontrollable means - your definition of what you do is no longer reflects the reality, but it is tied and narrowed down to entertain and fit your own love story.  Cause you got interest there. You get what I mean?

Partner kita tu macam pokok tu. He will not bring us anywhere, unless, die teruskan dengan perkahwinan, which is a very hard decision to do. Tapi kalau kita teruskan bertaut, apa yang kita dapat? Keseronokan dibuai angin sambil terhuyung hayang di pergantungan kat pokok tu. Yes, itu yang kita dapat. Memang seronok. Siapa yang taknak menikmati perasaan indah di celahan hidup yang penuh stress ni kan?
 

Kerana ia adalah keputusan yang sangat berat (utk teruskan dengan berkahwin), makanya, orang lelaki atau perempuan yang mulakan hajat itu, aku kira sebagai, mature, determined and serious!

Tapi kalau yang cakap "ok, kita akan kahwin, tapi sabar ye sayang..' dan dalam masa die nak suruh aku bersabar tu, die nak aku tumpahkan jugak kasih sayang kat die, ataupun aku yang nak jugak bagi kasih sayang kat orang yang entah2 tak sempat pun kahwin dengan aku sebab Allah panggil die dulu, tu dua-dua spesis, aku kire, GEDIK. 

Gedik dan aku condemn perbuatan itu sebagai; a serious harassment! Even if it has a mutual consent from both parties dan walaupun aku tak terlibat.

Kenapa serious harassment? Sebab..

- ia mengganggu status kedua-dua pihak untuk bergantung harap kepada Allah yang satu, 

- ia akan membuatkan kita mencampur adukkan yang batil dan hak.

- kurangnya keberkatan dalam perkahwinan, sebab, melanggar larangan Allah sebelum berkahwin.

- mengambil hak orang lain yang lebih layak utk diberi kasih sayang. Macam aku ni :) kahkah.

Things are pretty much simple.

1. Get ready for yourself to get married ie mentally, physically, financially prepared.
2. If you have someone in mind, approach her/him with all your preparations. (Note: IF you have prepared)
3. If you have someone but not prepared:
    - Fast, as what Rasulullah has adviced.
    - Keep on praying to Allah while preparing yourself.
    - Don't EVER tell her/him anything or give any hint! You have to SURE to Allah that if you keep on praying, keep on trusting that she's the one Allah has written for you, the best for you, you will surely get her. Worry not!
4. Get clear with her/his parents. Have all your plans in mind - clarified - to her/his parents.
5. Proceed with a very simple marriage :)
6. Have your very FIRST honeymoon (physically and emotionally) happily and blissfully. Ameen!
7. Die and remarry in the Jannah! Awwww!

Afraid if you're not compatible with her/him?

1. Build your trust in Allah - that you get someone good for you.
2. Approach her/his parents saying that you wanna know how is she/he like.
3. Meet her/him, with an accompany of a married couple who's expert in handling the taaruf session.
4. Apply for matrimonial and tell your demand.





[THIS IS NOT TYPICAL]
I cannot guarantee that if you follow this, your marriage will last long. But Allah guarantees that a blessed marriage will last long. This is just a general guidelines, which I think is the best way to keep the barakah, that I can come up with, based from my experience listening to talks and talking to people and having a counseling and having my own journey. Yet, I'm not married and still searching the better :)





Jangan main-main dengan hati orang!
Don't be afraid, slam your fist on the table and make your demand!

Yeaaaaah. Happy marrying!

Failure

"People seek for change only when they are desperate"

I am desperate. =.='

"We all need lots of powerful long-range goals to help us past the short-term obstacles."

"Success is 20% skills and 80% strategy. You might know how to read, but more importantly, what's your plan to read?" 

"Discipline yourself. Learning will take work."

"The best motivation is self-motivation. The guy says, "I wish someone would come by and turn me on." What if they don't show up? You've got to have a better plan for your life."

"Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better."   

"You've got to believe in the possibilities. You've got to believe that tomorrow can be better than today. And here's the big one. Believe in yourself." 



 .....




Get ready.

 Now!

For a better world, it starts from you!

Past

The past is too disgusting.

The future is yet to be interesting.

Stop looking at the back.

But moving forward forces me to bring along something. Can I just leave it behind?

Cause I wanted to start anew.



God. Let us forgive and forget.

Its a mistake that can be erased, I can even erase it myself.

I don't want to bring the false dreams forward. I don't want to reconstruct the tainted paintings.

I want to re-draw.

Erase everything and re-draw.

But if one of the painters refused, what shall I do?



The choice is mine.

How can I let it holds me back?



But the past is not to be forgotten.

It taught me how to drive carefully towards the future.

The more I learn from it, the more I realize how disgusting I've been.

The more I feel like leaving it behind, the more I want things to vanish.

The more I want to start anew.



I hope, my choice of turning a new leaf, wouldn't leave any souls hurt.

Please don't be hurt and understand.



I'm pretty sure, it was a false dream. It was fake. It was tainted. It's dirty.



Please understand and let's pray.

Kuatkanlah!

Semangat itu mudah hilang.

Katanya kerana matlamat tidak jelas.

Hati tidak ikhlas.

Satu persatu orang melepasi.

Hanya melihat atau teruskan berlari?

Yang melambatkan bukan batu-batu di jalanan.

Tapi keajaiban yang selalu diangan-angan,

tanpa usaha bak segenggam tangan.

Ya Allah, kuatkanlah!

Pembelajaran ini adalah untuk ummah.

Kalau dulu yakin ingin berubah,

kenapa kini hilang hammassah?

Ingat, dihujung perjalanan,

ada dunia dan syurga.

Seorang muslim tidak hilang keduanya.

Menguasai realiti akan membuatkan fantasi mengikuti.

Yang mana satu realiti di matamu,

dunia atau syurga Yang Satu?

"...dan janganlah kamu lupa akan bahagianmu di dunia.."

(Al Qasas: 77)

Chaiyokk!

4th Overall Best Speaker.

I’ve left this blog for nearly a year. But last night I decided to continue writing. Anyway, who cares?

Before that, this 2^nd block of first year is relatively as tough as the 1^st block, but I don’t see any increment in my frequency of study, yet I leave my room more often and I made my weekends more busy. Err.

Debate.

From left: Sarah, Jannah, Syazwan, Kareem, Hafiz, Hasna. I tell you, they are awesome!

My very first tournament in University level just ended last 29^th January 2012; it’s the 1^st East Coast Debating Cup 2012. And IIUM team did perform very well.

IIUM 1 broke as Semi-finalist

IIUM 2 broke as Quarter-finalist

IIUM overall speakers ranking:

1^st – Sarah

3^rd – Kareem

4^th – Jannah

6^th – Hafiz

10^th – Hasna

11^th – Syazwan

I’m very proud to be in a team with you guys but sadly, most of them are reaching their final years. We have just a very little time more to spend together as debaters.

This is indeed my very first achievement in debate. I’m not very much happy, but I’m grateful that it marked my improvement since I left my debating career for almost 3 years. I’m not sure what I really felt though my heart beat very fast and my hands were cold when I went on the stage to get the prize. I was like, is this for real?

When I first joined the debate club here, I only knew Kareem. Accidentally he was invited to adjudicate in MUSLEH ISDC and we met there when I was one of the runners. Then I knew Sarah who is very much helpful to fetch me at Tabari and go for training together. There is also Raheela and Fatimah, Hafiz and Syazwan, Hannan and Abid. The only debater in my batch is Kamal whom I knew since in CFS but we never talked. I just realized that I am very blessed to get to know these people when we went out for dinner together the night the debate ended to celebrate ourselves. I really am looking forward to more precious time we’ll be spending together as IIUM team.

Coming up next: NOVICE 2012. Go Raheela and Fatimah! J

Debaters, I just hope that when God POI-ed us on The Day when our feet, hands, legs, eyes, ears and hairs are giving speech on our best arguments to defend the case of all the things we did in this world, we could answer it as smooth as we did in any of our best-est debate tournament. Then I’m sure, we’ll be granted the best prize than any of the world-class tournaments have to offer. But yeah, on that day, we couldn’t be a team anymore, and couldn’t help each other L

When I started to wonder why I need to continue debating, then I’ll remember Ustazah Hawanis’s speech in one of SMIH Debate camps: The real urge that man needs to have critical thinking is from Al-Quran itself. Why do other people take the challenge more than we do?

True. Go and see any debating scenes. How many of them are real Muslims who claim to have been taught by the best Way-of-Life Guidance Book and obey the Almighty that controls the Universe?

The numbers are not more than you counting your fingers.

And I never think Ustazah Kamaliah wants us to debate only for the school. So I'm moving on.

Hujan

Hari ini hujan.
Pagi tadi lebat.
Sekarang sudah renyai-renyai.


Kalau hujan ini telah mengalirkan kotoran-kotoran di jalanan,
menyegarkan daun-daun kehijauan,
alangkah indahnya kalau ia mampu menyucikan jiwa yang kotor ini,
alirkan dosa-dosa ke tempat yang takkan kembali,
hidupkan hati biar bernafas dengan maghfirah ilahi.


Ramadhan...dimana kau di hatiku?


Hujan ini seperti awan menangis.
Bersama rintihan hati ini yang baru dipalit najis.

Crying clouds.

Please help.








p/s: Faizah...

"When the children of Gaza collect money for the children of Somalia, the world should be crying in shame."

I want money!

They said:

These are the blacks! They didn't even know how to rule properly, and begging us for money!

They are the one should be blamed! Why do they keep having children and prolong the sufferings?

I'm tired of this! Until when will the African rely on us?

This is a poorly damaging nation! Worthless! Let them die!

No! Its because of the European Invasion. They stole their money and resources and made a misery in Africa. 

Just donate. A small amount of money is enough!

It's not about black or white! These are humans!

I want to help!

I say:

A part of the world is suffering.

Another part of it is rejoicing.

Another part of it is abandoning.

After all, they are still in the same round world.

We are still one nation of human.

Why does God made this part of the world, still existing?

Why does God still give luxury to the other part to continue rejoicing?

Or if you don't believe in any God controlling the world, you think this thing just happen by itself?

Put yourself in their shoe. If you say you didn't ask for what you have right now, neither did they. Put yourself in their shoe.

Then you know what life actually worth for.

After all, you know you'll die soon.

Continue blaming and die. Or keep on saving and die.

Kamu dan Saya yang sedang mencari hati.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

[Sekadar perkongsian buat kita-kita yang mungkin sedang mencari 'hati']

Rasa susah mencari hati? Corrupting while waiting for the delivery?

Maybe you rely falsely.

Because you WAIT, you don't SEEK.

And He you should find. You said Angels are your friends. Talk to them.

I know Ramadhan provides a door to change.

I know you have found your heart.

When I listened back to the audio 'Pengurusan Cinta'.

It has exactly the same situation I might be facing.

And now I know why I'm changing.

Just one nice writing:

Bila belum bersedia melangkah lebih jauh dengan seseorang,

cukup cintainya dalam diam.

Kerana diammu adalah salah satu bukti cintamu padanya,

kau ingin memuliakan dia, dengan tidak mengajaknya menjalin hubungan terlarang

kau tidak mahu merosakkan kesucian dan penjagaan hatinya.

Kerana diammu memuliakan kesucian diri dan hatimu,

menghindarkan dirimu dari hal-hal yang akan merosakkan izzah dan iffah mu.

Kerana diammu bukti kesetiaanmu padanya

kerana mungkin saja orang kau cinta juga adalah orang yang Allah pilihkan untukmu.

Kerana diammu tersimpan kekuatan dan harapan

mungkin saja Allah akan membuat harapan itu menjadi nyata

dan cinta mu yang diam itu berbicara di dunia nyata

Tetapi

Jika memang 'cinta dalam diam' mu itu tidak akan berbicara di dunia nyata,

biarkan ia tetap diam..

Jika dia memang bukan takdirmu,

Allah melalui waktu akan menghapus 'cinta dalam diam' mu itu

dengan memberi rasa yang lebih indah dengan orang yang tepat.

Biarkan ia menjadi rahsia di sudut hatimu

antara kau dengan Sang Pemilik hatimu.

Jika benar cinta itu kerana Allah,

maka biarkanlah ia mengalir mengikut aliran Allah.

Kerana hakikatnya, ia berhulu dari Allah maka ia pun berhilir kepada Allah.

Jikalau cinta itu hadir tidaklah untuk Yang Maha Mengetahui,

secerca rasa itu tidak lagi tercipta untuk Yang Maha Pencipta,

tanyalah pada hati untuk siapa ia muncul dengan tiba-tiba?

Mungkinkah dengan redhaNya atau hanya mengundang murkaNya..

Cukup cintainya dalam diam

bukan kerana membenci hadirnya tapi menjaga kesuciannya

bukan kerana menghindari dunia tapi meraih syurgaNya

bukan kerana lemah untuk menghadapinya tapi menguatkan jiwa dari godaan syaitan yang begitu halus menyelusup

Cukup cintainya dalam kejauhan

kerana hadirmu takkan mampu menjauhkannya dari cobaan dan godaan

kerana hadirmu hanya akan menggoyahkan iman dan ketenangan

kerana hadirmu mungkin saja akan membawa leka pada hati-hati yang terjaga.

Cukup cintainya dengan sederhana,

memupuknya hanya akan menambah penderitaan

menumbuhkan harapan hanya akan mengundang kekecewaaan

mengharapkan balasan hanya akan mengundang kebahagiaan syaitan.

And one nice conclusion!:

Jikalah sudah bersedia untuk melangkah lebih jauh,

katakanlah cinta mu itu.....dengan penuh perasaan, zahirkan keikhlasan itu......

..... kepada MAK AYAH die!

p/s: Ok. ini jiwaaaaaaang. Siapa geli boleh beredar. bahahaha.

Pasal audio tu, sape nak boleh mintak ye (bagi email). Tak reti nak masukkan audio dalam blog nih.

Credit to http://www.iluvislam.com/tazkirah/remaja-a-cinta/2529-cinta-dalam-diam.html. Ayat best2 tu diadaptasi dari sini. Sorrylah kalau nak karang ayat macam ni. Tapi makna die, for me, sgt precise! I hope YOU really get what I mean :p

Btw, dah 20's ok. Salah ke nak bercakap2 pasal ni. Tipulah kalau hati korang tak pernah diketuk langsung. hehe.

p/s: nak masuk the last 10 dah! :(

Aku Bekerja

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

In this post,

I officially declare myself working as Herbalife Independent Distributor.

Bukan nak bercerita pasal Herbalife.

Nak cerita pasal kenapa yang macam-macam.

Hanya nak berkongsi perasaan saya selama saya berada bersama dengan syarikat ini. Kalau rasa macam ini cara halus untuk mempromosikan produk, sukahatilah. Tapi kalau hati dah mula bibit-bibit tidak puas hati (ceh. baru mula dah tak puas hati) macam 'inilah Melayu dungu nak cepat kaya tau nak duit bagi makan orang kapir' , dipersilalah meninggalkan blog ini dengan segala hormatnya. Peace.

Firstly, kenapa nak bekerja?

Sebagai student, tak lain tak bukan nak extra income lah. Boleh buat beli baju baru, makan mewah2, beg baru, tukar-tukar handphone ke.. At least taklah macam sesetengah budak tak sedar diri beli macam-macam tak ingat makan duit orang melalui biasiswa yang die dapat tuh. Tak rasa bersalah langsung guna bersuka suki dengan duit cukai rakyat bayar yang ada setengah nak bayar tu guna peluh sebaldi. Susah ok. Jangan bersenang-senang dengan duit yang orang cari susah-susah.

Tapi saya insyaAllah, taklah nak guna duit sebegitu rupe. At least ada lah duit cover tambang pergi balik rumah ke, tak payah fikir-fikir boleh sponsor program (reunion batch ke, program uni ke) rm500 ke..rm100 pun dah cukup, dapat belikan hadiah untuk adikberadik+makbapak yang best-best mahal-mahal harga yang original (bukan sebab sale atau lelong atau macam reject shop), dapat monthly derma Aqsa Sharif rm100 sebulan ke, dapat biaya sorang anak angkat Palestin ke, dapat derma online untuk Somalia, untuk Jepun atau mana-mana of victims natural disaster ke, takpayah mintak duit topup dari Abi lagi (duit topup pun mintak bapak ke? hehe. kadang-kadang kalau dah kering sangatlah), boleh buat haji sebelum tumbuh sehelai pun uban, sebelum muka berkedut2 ke...kan? Best tak kalau boleh buat semua ni masa umur kita 20-an. Hidup memang taktahu berapa lama lagi kan..so kalau ada peluang boleh buat cepat-cepat, why not? Saya memang nampak keupayaan itu dalam bisnes Herbalife ini.

Kenapa pilih yang MLM?

Takde nak memilih pun..mana-mana kerja pun ok. Asal dapat extra income. Tapi dah peluang ni datang dulu. Dah datang 2 tahun lepas lagi.. sebenarnya, kalau ikutkan, orang Herbalife (student) yang dah 2 tahun dalam bisnes ni, sekarang dah income lebih 10k, dengan hanya part time. Tapi saya, lepas 2 tahun baru nak mula bisnes... =.='

Kenapa lambat?

Sebab marketing plan die yang guna MLM ni lah! Saya pun agak ragu-ragu pada mulanya. Yelah kan banyak MLM yang menindas orang je. Goyang kaki senang-senang dapat duit dari usaha orang lain. Baaaanyak cantik! Kalau ikut fatwa Malaysia, jual beli cara MLM adalah harus dengan syarat-syarat tertentu. Fatwa Mesir pula haram terus. Juga ada sebab-sebab tertentu. Yang paling basic sekarang adalah kena ikut cara jual beli yang halal dan benar menurut Islam. Sumbernya, caranya, barangnya, takde riba dan penipuan, dan tiada unsur-unsur duit atas angin. Jadi, apa yang menyebabkan saya yakin dengan bisnes ni (2 tahun mengkaji tuhh. cewaah) :

1. Saya menjual produk, bukan keahlian ok.

2. Kalau awak masuk register bawah saya pun, saya tak dapat satu habuk pun dari bayaran pendaftaran awak tu, semuanya company dapat. Logiklah kalau company dapat, sebab orang-orang tu semua berdaftar dengan company, bukan saya.

3. Duit yang saya dapat hanyalah keuntungan penjualan produk semata-mata. Tak jual produk, tak dapat untung, takde duit. Tak kiralah banyak mana pun orang yang berdaftar bawah awak.

4. Pendaftaran yang dibuat tu, langsung tidak merugikan. Company dapat duit, awak terus layak dapat diskaun 25% daripada harga produk sampai mati. Beli seciput pun dapat diskaun, beli selori lagi besar diskaun.

5. Logiklah kan, kalau beli borong, dapat lagi murah. Macam Herbalife jugaklah. Yang lebih bestnya, dapat murah tu, sampai bila-bila walaupun next month atau pembelian seterusnya dah tak beli borong. Saya hanya akan dapat untung kalau diskaun saya lebih tinggi dari diskaun awak. Kalau diskaun sama, saya beli pun harga sama, jual pun harga sama, mana untungnya? Saya hanya dapat jual produk, dan untungnya adalah........awak semakin sihat! Diskaun tertinggi dalam herbalife adalah 50%. Over la kalau nak 100%, bukan awak buat sendiri produk tu pun, tolong jualkan aje. Tu pun untung awak dapat tu pun dah kira baguss.

6. Saya hanya boleh dapat royalti untuk downline 3 level pertama sahaja. Level keempat dan seterusnya dah tak dapat. So kalau ada downline ke 100, takde maknanya saya dapat untung apa-apa dari mereka. So takde maknanya kalau nak dapat duit cari orang banyak2. So takde lah duit atas angin dengan jualan ntah sapa2 kat bawah tu kan.

7. Untuk naik level (untuk dapat bonus pulak), kena pastikan orang bawah kita berjaya jugak. Dalam kata lain, lahirkan leader. Kira ni pun kena memimpin gak lah. Kalau orang bawah terkontang kanting, tau nak buat orang jadi ahli aje, tak boleh berjaya. Nak berjaya sorang-sorang? Boleh blah la kalau dalam Herbalife ni. Nak berjaya, kena sama-sama!

8. Downline boleh jadi berada di level yang lagi tinggi dari upline. Yang penting, kena kerja. Sapa kerja, dapat gaji lebih, pangkat pun lebih tinggi lah kan. Kau downline ke, aku upline ke, dah tak kira. Sebab tu Herbalife is possible for anyone. Yang kuat kerja lebih, dapatlah habuan lebih.

Yang kedua, sebab orang-orang didalamnya yang saya perhatikan (err.ada gossip dalam hati ke?). Saya jadi konfius kejap sebab taknak jadi macam mereka. Pandangan saya, macam ni. Ok, dah kurus. Tapi tak perlu pakaian nak fit-fit tunjuk body kan. Ok gembira sihat. Tapi tak perlu sampai ber-dancing sebelah laki sebelah perempuan goyang kepala dan bun*** macam tak ingat dunia kalau tetiba kena tsunami macam mana? Ok lah dah berjaya boleh naik atas pentas contohi orang-orang positif yang lain. Tapi tak perlu nak admire sangat salam-salam dengan non-muslim biarkan mereka letak tangan atas bahu (macam peluk jugakk lah kan). Ok Mark Hughes ni bagus. Tapi tak perlu nak bersemangat sangat cerita pasal die kalau suruh cerita pasal sejarah Nabi Muhammad agak2 lancar dan tahu segala detail tak? Ok akan bertambah syukur bila sihat. Tapi saya rasa kalau orang yang lebih bersyukur ni dia tahu nak prioritikan yang mana (sihat rohani atau jasmani?), tak delay2 solat sebab sibuk sangat berbisnes. Ok Herbalife ni bagus. Tapi perlu ke bermati-matian cakap pasal Herbalife 24/7? Memang ada yang semangat sangat sampai cakap 'tiada pekerjaan yang lebih mulia berbanding Herbalife'. Hellllooooo, dalam hati saya: 'Jihad betul-betul atas nama Allah ok! Yang mengajak pada Islam!'

Yang ni takperlu nak salahkan sesiapa lah kan. Sebabnya - offer untuk perniagaan dakwah tak sampai lagi pada mereka (sebab kita ke?), dan diorang masih belum faham Islam bagaimana kita faham (salah kita lagi?) so why not dedicate life utk herbalife daripada benda2 lagha yang lain kan. Lagipun tak semua yang macam ni. Suasana dan gayanya jadi begini sebab masih kurang orang Islam dan mejoriti memang non-muslim. Saya je terpikir-pikir takut saya jadi begini.

So, kesimpulannya, saya lambat sebab saya mencari bagaimana untuk tidak menjadi begitu semangat seperti mereka sehingga kemungkinan saya akan ketepikan komitmen yang lain. Dan kalau boleh semangat pun, bagaimana caranya (yelah, nak jugak jual produk. Kalau tak mcm mana nak dapat extra income). Sebab, akhir sekali, saya nak orang mula-mula melihat saya sebagai ORANG ISLAM sebelum melihat saya sebagai ORANG HERBALIFE. Sebab saya akan rasa bersalah kalau lebih mempromosikan Herbalife berbanding Islam. Tapi Herbalife boleh jadi pemula bicara :)

Dan saya rasa, orang mukmin should be good inside out kan? Kalau inside itu ukhrawi, dan outside itu duniawi, neither should we leave behind...itu yang nabi cakap (dan itu yang Nabi buat)kan? Tapi inside itu paling penting untuk dipastikan berjaya. Ok, itu next post.

Sebelum saya (mungkin juga awak?) bermula.

Antara sebab lain yang saya jadi lambat adalah membaca blog orang yang anti-MLM atau secara spesifiknya, anti-herbalife. Ni memang anti gila2 lah, dengan bahasa yang **** tak tau nak cakap macam mana. Banyak fakta yang dia bagi dan saya juga ada komen. Tapi tiba-tiba dipanggil troll pulak. Ergh. Sorry lah bang. Tak berniat nak mengganggu ketenteraman blog awak. Mungkin salah jugak soalan saya kot bunyi macam orang nak gaduh gitu.

Katanya skim piramid - akan capai infiniti. Confirm-confirmlah sebab ada tangga-tangga nak kena naik kan.

Saya faham matematik yang dia kemukakan. Dan saya faham juga akan sampai infiniti satu hari nanti. Lagi lagi pulak herbalife grows very fast. Ia akan sampai ke tahap tepu, dah takboleh cari orang baru. Tapi bagi saya, infiniti tu akan tercapai kalau populasi dunia ini tidak bertambah dan tidak bertukar-tukar2. ye lah, setiap tahun berapa bilion orang mati, berapa bilion lagi yang lahir kan. Walau pun jumlahnya mungkin sacara puratanya sama, tapi orangnya kemungkinan besar bertukar. Lagi pulak, dalam herbalife, tak semua orang yang berdaftar tu berniat untuk memulakan perniagaan. Tak semua orang nak naik tangga tinggi-tinggi tuh. Ramai juga yang hanya pengguna produk. So, tak semua orang mencari customer (sebab kami jual produk, bukan tergila-gila kena cari customer). Dalam masa herbalife nak grow ni pun, agaknya kalau 10ribu distributor, dalam 2-3ribu dah meninggal dah, 2-3ribu lagi lahir yang belum kenal herbalife. Ada lagi orang baru..mcm tu lah. Tapi taktahulah kalau pendapat saya ni salah.

Katanya tak lain nak bagi makan orang kapir lahanat kat atas yang goyang kaki tu lah!

Well, kalau ni MLM baru nak fikir bagi makan orang kafir. Kalau produk yang bukan MLM, still selling fast, tak fikir pulak bagi makan orang kafir tu? Macam beli komputer ke, handphone ke, berapa banyak yang orang Islam yang kita bagi makan dengan beli barang-barang tu? Semua kafir je.. Produk jualan apa-apa pun, semua keuntungannya memang akan berbalik pada orang yang produce produk tu kan yang kat ataaaas sekali nun. Lagi banyak orang beli, lagi banyak die dapat duit. Bukan produk MLM je macam ni. Memang logiklah kan, orang yang kat atas sekali tu yang buat produk ni, die deserve la jadi kaya. Bezanya, adalah cara pemasaran produk tu. Produk2 biasa, pemasaran biasa, orang yang jual kan tu hanya dapat gaji kan. Ada orang atas nak kongsi2 untung? Hey, ni bukan produk kau! Jualkan aje ok. Nanti aku bayar sikit. Yang buat kerja jual produk ni promoter2 kat supermarket tuh, yang pemborong, tapi dapat gaji aje, takboleh dikongsi keuntungan produk, bagi special sikit ke kalau dah jadi pemborong tetap..takde nya...macam gitulah jugak. Tapi Herbalife ni, orang bawah yang tolong die jualkan produk pun diberi peluang untuk dapatkan untung jugak. Diberi peluang kalau nak dapatkan royalti, bonus sebab tolong jualkan produk die. Kat sinilah Herbalife create business opportunity berbanding produk2 biasa, yang tak bagi peluang untuk orang lain bina perniagaan sendiri menggunakan produk2 tu. Kalau boleh pun, buka kedai runcit lah..tapi nak kaya macam diorang, tak kot. Itupun mungkin boleh kalau bukak supermarket macam Giant. Macam tu je simplenya..Tapi memanglah last2 duit paling banyak bagi kat orang atas sekali jugak, dah tu produk die. Bezanya, adakah orang atas tu berkongsi dengan orang bawah, atau tak? Herbalife jawab ye. Orang bawah tu awaklah :p

Peluang pernigaan yang mudah

Startup kit yang perlu hanya rm98 tu je. Dah boleh terus buat bisnes. Tak perlu invest banyak2 nak buka supermarket macam Giant tu. Flexible lagi, boleh pilih nak part time atau full time. Kalau part time, boleh pilih bila2 masa yang awak free, guna apa2 cara yang awak mampu. Semuanya ok je, cuma beza nanti awak dapat duit banyak cepat atau lambat. Itu semua bergantung pada kerja. Tapi saya, asal dapat extra income, kira ok lahh.

Pengalaman bersama Nutrition Club

Kalau kata saya suka produk2 jualan direct selling macam ni, tipulah kan. Kena jumpa orang nak promote2, tolonglah. Dalam hati nanti mesti ada yang berbisik 'baik promote Islam! Amboi kau. kalau bab nak duit semangat promote, bab nak tolong orang dapat hidayah?' Ha. mesti terdiam, terus senyap. ok, dah. Cumanya, dalam blog terbabit (yang kutuk Herbalife) tu pun ada cakap pasal side effect. Saya cuti ni bersama dengan Nutrition Club untuk 2 bulan, untuk tahu lebih tentang produk. Mula-mula memang tak percaya, guna je lah sebab mak guna jugak. Tapi dah jumpa macaaaaaam macam orang di Nutrition Club, memang saya tidak boleh tidak untuk percaya yang kunci kesihatan adalah makanan yang sihat. Bukan orang senang, orang susah pun. Dari strok, kencing manis, darah tinggi, obesiti, mata kabur orang tua-tua tuh, sakit lutut, dah boleh sembahyang berdiri, mereka kata: Nikmat, Alhamdulillah! Akan terus makan sampai mati gantikan nasi lemak@roti canai+teh tarik semua tu. Herbalife is just a nutritious food, bukan supplement atau pil2 biasa. Pasal die letak semua artikel PubMed segala bagai, saya pun taktahu nak kata apa. Yang pasti 30 tahun Herbalife dalam market, orang yang paling mula-mula waktu herbalife baru, masih lagi bersama Herbalife, selama 30 tahun, takde side effect. Orang yang lebih bersemangat, dah pergi extravaganza, boleh jumpa sendiri dengan doktor2 terbabit, dan dah tanya macam2. Herbalife dah dalam 76 countries, dah lepas semua checkup dari Ministry of Health kesemua negara tersebut. Apa lagi?

Kerana saya bekerja.

Orang bekerja, ada tak main2? Kalau saya jadi doktor nanti, time bekerja kena sungguh-sungguh kan? Yang penting niat kerana Allah. Samalah kalau saya bekerja part time ni. Time bekerja sungguh2, tapi komitmen dakwah takkan sekali diketepi, insyaAllah. Bila sungguh-sungguh, tak bermakna saya tolak tepi komitmen lain. (jangan pelik pulak kalau macam semangat sangat. Kalau saya bukak kedai photocopy pun saya akan promote kedai tu jugak buat iklan segala bagai. ok back to basic - normal lah sebagai orang bekerja kalau semangat perihal kerja time tengah kerja (?)) Takboleh.. Kalau part time, buat cara part time. Jangan lah 24/7 cakap pasal nak promote.

Kalau semua orang tak kesah kalau orang share pasal buat kek coklat moist yang sedap, nasi lemak kaw-kaw, semua orang sepatutnya tak kesah jugak kalau saya nak share pasal makanan yang berkhasiat untuk sel manusia. Kalau pasal makanan lain tak rasa pulak macam promote, bila cakap pasal ni hanya sebab die MLM jugak, sharing sikit je ingat nak promote? You nak rasa sihat macam I rasa, jom! Kalau you tak kesah berbelanja makan macam2 sekarang untuk invest pada penyakit yang you tahu you akan dapat, fine. Go ahead, no one can stop you :)

Kalau pun tak dapat income banyak sangat, this is just a nutritious food by the way. Who on earth will stop eating kan?

Aku hanya bekerja.

p/s: Link ke blog yang anti-MLM. Boleh search 'Herbalife' aka 'some cows eat shit' =.='.

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Wassalam.

MRJ

MRJ aka MR Junior

stands for Mohd Radzi Junior.

These are the amazing juniors of Mohd Radzi.

So the pronounciation for short is M.R Junior not Mister Junior (as for Mr). If you pronounced the latter, then you are actually referring to another thing ok.

At least, pronounce it correctly in front of ME. thehe.

Now I present you,

and its heavenly, finger-licking, undescribable taste - burgers,

specially updated menu for Ramadhan thrills!

I'm telling you it's truly a HOMEMADE BURGERS. A special chicken and beef patty you can never get from any store! Urh, and hashbrown too!

What is so special about MR Junior besides its main product; burgers?

Well, I specially wrote this post because of the PEOPLE of MR Junior.

1. This is him, Mohd Radzi.

Now he's running his own computer software business under Rashada Solutions.

The ones who are running MR Junior, are of course his juniors; his sons. Yes, both of them.

Of course, everyone's special. He is special in silent. He supports with heart and actions rather than words. But he acts at the back, unseen by people, I know.

And he is...err...unusually funny :)

I call him, Abi.

2. Abdullah Irfan bin Mohd Radzi.

A freelancer in graphic design. A self-skilled and self-learned designer. Born with a perfect hand that produces an extraordinary piece of artwork, an imaginative guy who's extremely creative in work and actions.

And.....quite good-looking? ngeh3.

He's understanding, but people (read: I) can hardly understand him. Secretive. In a discussion, he usually wins =.='. Suka kelentong dan sakat orang, kekelakarannya sangat luarbiasa dan kadang-kadang menyakitkan hati. Ouch. This is my Angah.

3. Abu Hanzalah bin Mohd Radzi.

Unusual but a unique name. Just graduated from PTPL College in Cullinary Arts when started the MR Junior business together with his brother. The inventor (I guess. hehe) and cooker of all secret recipes of MR Junior. Good in cooking but rarely cook for us. hehe. A very hardworking man and a good secret keeper. Very neat and clean, quite easy to be frank :) Tak kedekut utk cakap 'I Love You' dengan ahli keluarganya. Oh, sweeet. Love you too, Ude!

MR Junior has been around 2 years in business. Still growing as a beginner and I have my endless support and good dreams for it in the future. I know they'll make it, and I know that the best backbone to support is the family itself.

Just knew MR Junior? Click here for more info and recent updates.

The page currently has 977 likes. Let's make it 1000!

As in the proposal, they chose green colour as MR Junior official colour purposely to represent Islam. Oh, sweet again :)

Read some links of customers' special reviews on our burgers, to thrill you even more!

Signature dish dari MR Junior

Best grilled burgers in Bangi

[Must try] MR Junior

Mr Junior Original Burger Ala Carte

Mr Junior Merry-Go-Round

Mr Junior Egg Burger

You can search for videos as well.

Some even make MR Junior as one of their blogs' gadjets as in here.

Greatest thanks to Allah, for all the support, endurance, and achievements.

Hm, yeah, Mohd Radzi actually has more juniors.

But these are the seniors of his juniors. Ngee.

From left; Angah, Ude, Utih and Alang.

But the sequence goes 2nd, 5th, 6th and 4th.

Welcome to MR Junior's family!