hmm, smlm baca blog orang. 2 kali ana ter baca statement berbunyi.. "pakai je lah, x susah pun.." - yang ditujukan tentang memakai tudung.
Kadang2 penat mendengar, membaca, melihat orang asyik stress upon wearing the hijab. smpaikan orang asyik terus memakai tudung walaupun berlengan pendek, singkat depan dan belakang, ketat kanan dan kiri. Yang penting, pakai tudung. ye ke?
"pakai je lah, x susah pun.."
mmg tak susah. Tapi kita bercakap ni pada makhluq bernama manusia yang ada akal untuk mempertikaikan dan mempersoalkan. dia perlukan sebab untuk melakukan sesuatu yang boleh diterima akal. Dan sebab yang AQ jelaskan mmg boleh diterima, cuma hati yang dibelenggu terasa nak menolak..atau mempertikaikan.
tak pelik tengok dunia. di setengah tempat, orang bermati-matian perjuangkan hak menjaga maruah seorang wanita dengan memakai hijab. di setengah tempat lain pula, pakai hijab bagai mengongkong, kolot dan tak trendy dengan peredaran zaman sekarang..hmm..mcm2.
Head covering is an evergreen issue; always related to Islam though nuns also wear it, and other respectful women in history like Mother Teresa. Hijab is not about Islam. It's about a way of dressing which brings respect to a woman. Unbelievable? believe it. You can try this at home.
Here's one, a real life story. Someone who is hardly can wear the hijab, yet proud to have it as her identity. This is told by a sister in Islam, Ayesha Badib whom i know from FCR Alumni group.
"She is a student who is from Kazakhstan and she is 19 years old. Alhamdulillah she is a practicing Muslim who prays 5 times a day, fasts, knows her tawheed and is also covered up. However, she has only recently received this hidayah and has only been fully practicing for the last 4 months. Since then, her mother has been crying everyday for her to stop being such a 'staunch' Muslim and to take off her head scarf.
Even though she comes from a country which is majority Muslims, most of them are not practicing and have the faintest idea of Islam. She told me that there are only 3 mosques in her city and only 3 Halal butchers which are very far away from each other.
She comes from a family of 2 older brothers and herself being the youngest. Alhamdulillah her brothers have also found Islam and are practicing, however, the mother and father are not wanting to 'lose' their only baby daughter to the religion and insists that she takes off the head scarf and be like any other 'normal' teenager, as she is still young and has a long life ahead of her.
Her mother is now sick and is crying everyday for her to take off the headscarf and she is scared that her mother might get even more sick or even die because of her. Hence, she is now contemplating to remove her headscarf."
A dilemma; between wearing a headscarf and saving a mother. God.
Bayan. Penjelasan itu yang membedakan benar dan batil. Walau kadangkala pahit utk diluahkan, pahit juga utk ditelan.
Apa tujuan sebenar pakai tudung?
Nota dari Allah - menyuruh manusia menutup aurat.
24:30{Katakanlah kepada lelaki yang beriman supaya mereka menyekat pandangan mereka (daripada memandang yang haram), dan memelihara kehormatan mereka. Yang demikian itu lebih suci bagi mereka; sesungguhnya Allah Amat Mendalam PengetahuanNya tentang apa yang mereka kerjakan}
24:31{Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan yang beriman supaya menyekat pandangan mereka (daripada memandang yang haram), dan memelihara kehormatan mereka; dan janganlah mereka memperlihatkan perhiasan tubuh mereka kecuali yang zahir daripadanya}
mari analisa apa yang terkandung..
-Perhatikan bahawa Allah menyuruh lelaki menjaga pandangan mata terlebih dahulu (24:30) sebelum Allah menyuruh wanita menutup aurat (24:31)
- Selain lelaki, wanita juga disuruh menyekat pandangan mata, tetapi ramai di kalangan lelaki dan wanita yang tidak patuhinya
- Ini juga menunjukkan bahawa kedua-dua jantina ada potensi tertarik untuk memandang sesama sendiri
- Tetapi disebabkan kekuatan fizikal dan 'kreativiti berfikir dan merancang' lelaki melebihi wanita, maka ini boleh mendorong kepada jenayah
- Oleh itu, arahan kepada wanita supaya mengelakkan 'provokasi' dengan menjaga aurat adalah langkah pembelaan ke atas wanita
Jika yang menimbulkan persoalan Isu Tudung ini adalah seorang Kristian, maka kita boleh membuat perbandingan dengan arahan keras menutup kepala (rambut) yang dikenakan ke atas wanita Kristian di dalam Bible sendiri.
1 Corinthians 11:5-6
But every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, for that is one and the same as if her head were shaved.
For if a woman is not covered, let her also be shorn. But if it is shameful for a woman to be shorn or shaved, let her be covered.
wallahu a'lam. Moga hujah ini tingkatkan lagi istiqomah ana dlm memakai tudung..ops..menutup aurat(lebih spesifik).
Ya Allah, pimpin kami menujuMu..
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